The Source of Kobe - Gasol Conflict?

Loyal reader Alf S. reports this nugget of gossip:

"According to my son, the word is that Gasol's girlfriend broke up with him at the urging of Kobe's wife....not sure what was the problem that they were addressing but one can imagine....at any rate, looks like Pao may not be long for the Lakers...."

Here's a link to a story backing up the theory: http://aol.sportingnews.com/nba/story/2011-05-09/did-breakup-affect-pau-gasols-playoff-performance